Monday, June 28, 2010

COUPLES?!?!?!

Let us read and think carefully(dedicated to myself for sure, and you all..)




(Couple in islam)

As a MUSLIM ,I always ask myself whether 
COUPLE is allowed or not in islam. One day, in facebook...
i read about couple in my friend's note.
In her NOTE, she told that her friend received an article from
IKIM(INSTITUT KEFAHAMAN ISLAM MALAYSIA)
about couple in ISLAM.
It ANSWERS MY QUESTION CLEARLY!!


What Islam have said about 'COUPLE'The  title of the  article:


" COUPLING:FORBIDDEN"!!!

There is no coupling before married in islam.
In ISLAM, if a MAN truly love a WOMAN...
translation: "If we love flowers,the flowers will fall,If we love human,the human will die
BUT If we love ALLAH S.W.T ,the love is Everlasting"

He should perform "SOLAT ISTIKHARAH"
 prays and asking from ALLAH S.W.T
 whether the girls that he likes/loves is the right one's for him/fate
 Later, if he got the clue's(E.G DREAM) that the girl is his fate,
 the man should approach  the parent's of the girl and
 asking for their permission in order to befriend with the girl
with the intention to marry her and NOT just to "play' with her.

Then, the girl also should perform "SOLAT ISTIKHARAH"

If  she got the clue the the man the is her fate,
and both parents agree with them
It does'nt mean they can dating,hang out together..
Next, both family should discuss and decide the date of the wedding.
Insya Allah..their wedding will be bless by ALLAH S.W.T
and live happily ever after.amin...
la, and happy ever after....Insya Allah....

So, in conclusion,NO COUPLE BEFORE MARRIED IN ISLAM.
To ALL my dearest muslim and non-muslim friends,
i have no bad intention  to talk bad about others people 
 and totally hate or "boycott" COUPLE .
NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!
because....
i realized that i'm  also have done many bad things and sins.
i'm just want to share my knowledges with all of you.
Take the good/positive points from my post and apply or practice in our daily.
Apologizes me for my mistake in this post.The IMPORTANT KEY in a relationship whether
as a couple,friend, or family...our "good intention because  of ALLAH S.W.T"
in every act and words that we said towards other person.

" i do believe in this words, deep down if you guys ask
yourself, we already have the answer, ALLAH the
almighty have always slipped in the answer in our
heart, it's just that we rather listen to the 'other'
voice than the one that's already there.."




 translation:"DON'T AFRAID THAT WE ARE BEING HATED BY HUMAN IN THIS WORLD
BUT BE AFRAID IF WE ARE BEING HATED BY ALLAH S.W.T IN "AKHIRAT" "

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